Question: My girl friend no longer wishes to talk to me. We always argued but I do indeed love her.
Response: See my first and second chapters in my mermaid empathy course on line. The 1st chapter is on active listening and the 2nd chapter is on a heightened level of empathy.
http://williammistele.com/books.html
If you listen well, you can avoid arguments. It is a simple skill, though it takes practice. But it is endless in its possibilities.
For example, you can listen as if you have the ears of Divine Providence itself. As you listen imagine a vast empty space filled with dark ultraviolet light. And that this vibration dissolves everything negative simply by offering a clarity that is free of attachment and a sense of connection in which you are one with the other person and one hundred per cent within the experience of whatever is being described.
In a pinch, it is always nice to have a conversation with someone who possesses an absolute conviction that everything good in life is on its way; and also that every experience that exists in life can be seen both in its raw truth and as part of a greater journey.
If there is no attachment, then there is absolute freedom. If there is perfect oneness-that is another person present who can be completely one with you or the experience you are describing-then there is love without separation.
Finding someone who can listen like this is, like I say, a nice thing to have when you need it.
(Oh yes, active listening is listed under divine missions: http://williammistele.com/jobopenings3.htm") William Mistele's photo.
